…And on that note, we need to flock together! I have received a gazillion emails from those of you who prefer to contact me via email instead of posting comments here.
I always welcome direct contact with each and every one of you for so many reasons BUT the reality is this: We and that means each and every one of us needs to share our experiences and insight with women who need our help.
Maybe you didn’t write the book but that doesn’t mean you don’t know your story by heart or heartbreak in many cases. Here is an example of something that was shared with me regarding medical records. I benefited from hearing about it and passed it on to you. Had it not been shared with me, I couldn’t have shared it with you.
So many of you have mentioned to me that you feel safer with emails and that is fine but you CAN comment anonymously on this site. You do NOT have to use your real name to post a comment. Your input, your support, your questions and your experiences are what are appreciated.
Your real name plays no role in helping other women beat the odds of a devastating divorce. In fact, it might be a lighthearted touch to make up a fun name that describes you but please keep it clean! (Smile!)
There is only one rule here. No attacks on other women posing questions or commenting will be allowed. So many of you who are regulars here know that I will not tolerate unkindness!


I’ve been reading your blog for a long time but I was afraid to “haul my laundry out” because I felt like the world’s biggest fool for being dumped after 22 years of marriage. But you make sense that we should network together and support each other. If somebody reads my story and gets something out of it, I guess that doesn’t make me a fool anymore. Thanks, Claudia.
My pleasure. We are in the same boat. It’s not our mistakes but what we learn from them that is important.