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Audry Hepburn Speaks About Beauty!

17 August, 2008 @ 8:41 pm
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I just came across this quote and feel the need to share it, even though it may be a repeat!

Audrey Hepburn…

”For attractive lips, speak words of kindness.

For attractive eyes, see the good in others.

For a slim figure, share your food with the hungry.

For beautiful hair, let a child run his or her fingers

through it.

For poise, walk with the knowledge that you never

walk alone.

People, even more than things, have to be restored,

renewed, revived, reclaimed and redeemed.

Never throw out anyone.

Remember, if you ever need a helping hand, you will find one at

the end of each of your arms.

As you grow older, you will rediscover both hands, one for helping yourself

and the other for helping others.”

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Do What Dara Did! (Dara Torres)

17 August, 2008 @ 3:41 pm
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Watching this mom compete with and surpass women, up to twenty five years her juniors, should be motivation for all of us! I get chills just thinking about her determination, tenacity and “work out” ethic. Watching her on TV last night was probably the most energizing TV watching that I have ever experienced. I kept thinking that because she has been divorced twice, she understands the heartache that comes with and after the process. She knows the physical pain of giving birth. She knows the rapture of having a child and the torture of having to be away from a child more than she would desire. Other than the facts that; she is beautiful and has a perfect body and phenomenal emotional and physical strength, she is just like all of us! Hey, if I can admit it, you can too! Let’s focus on the “revelation” that Dara Torres put her sights on a goal and achieved it because she believed in herself and executed the necessary tasks at hand. Dara did what she was determined to do! So can you!

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Policeman in San Mateo Holds Poodle’s Owners Hostage! Poodle Dies!

15 August, 2008 @ 5:48 pm
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This policeman makes my blood curdle! I understand enforcing the law but there must be a gray area at times. Even if there isn’t a gray area with the law, there must be respect and a caring attitude for the people and or the animals involved in whatever breach of law occurs! The five o’clock news on WHDH Boston channel 7, just reported a piece which made me feel physically ill. Apparently there was a couple in a car, which was speeding down the highway because their beloved poodle was choking. They were exceeding the speed limit in order to get help and save their pet’s life. The policeman, who pulled them over, held them for twenty minutes while the dog ended up dying in their arms. The policeman stated that they weren’t in a condition to drive because they were so upset! Hello? How about putting the couple in the squad car and then speed legally to get them to the vet??? I’m sure they would have paid for any gas, any fine or anything else necessary! This man got a “slap” on his hand because he should have been better in how he handled the situation. His superior said in essence, that he did nothing wrong! What am I missing here? What this policeman did, in my opinion, broke the law of how people need to “do unto others!” “Just a dog,” he said. You, sir make me sick!

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Animals can smell fear and so can people!

15 August, 2008 @ 11:29 am
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“They can smell fear,” my mother told me as I approached my first horse. I wondered at the time, why she had said that. I was so excited about the prospect of having my first riding lesson that I didn’t tune into the meaning of her words. I wasn’t afraid of any animal and so I never really understood the “smell thing” until I arrived on the scene, after a dog fight. My son had come running out to the barn where I was mucking stalls. I heard him scream, “Danny’s dying!!!” I ran as fast as I could to the fenced in back yard where the dogs were.

Please allow me to give you a bit of background. I have had Scottish Terriers my whole life. They are smart, stubborn, at times independent, tenacious and gutsy. As my mom said, “They are a big dog in a small dog’s body.” At some point, I decided to explore another breed because some knuckle head told me that Scotties couldn’t be “barn dogs.” I opted to get a Pembroke Welsh Corgi or a Jack Russell. Both breeds are acclaimed for their “ability” to be barn dogs. I found a breeder of Corgis, who happened to have been raised with Scotties, herself. She knew the temperaments of both breeds and suggested the pup that, in her opinion would be a “get along dog” that would be a welcome addition to the Scottie household. And so it came to be that, Rugby Jones arrived on the farm. He was indeed a “get along” kind of a dog. He loved other dogs, even the most timid or the most aggressive and they loved him. I knew that there would “never” be a problem because of his easy going nature. He was accepted by the Scotties and all was well. He was smart and loyal and everything went exactly as planned until Katie arrived on the scene.

A friend’s Jack Russell had had a litter of puppies and somehow, I ended up with one of them. So now I have three Scotties, a Welsh Corgi, a Jack Russell, not to mention four kids, six horses and a cat! Well, things were never the same on the farm. From the minute that Katie arrived on the scene, Rugby decided that he was her defender and protector. He was fine with my getting close to her but did not like her to “be involved” with any other four legged or two legged creatures. Well, like most puppies and especially Jack Russell puppies, Katie was extremely active, playful and rather annoying to any two legged or four legged being that she encountered.

Now mind you, this is only supposition since I wasn’t there for the beginning of the infamous dog fight. My theory however, is that Katie aggravated sweet and timid “Danny Boy,” one of my Scotties. Knowing his rather lethargic attitude toward life’s day to day activities, my guess is that her antics which often included nipping, exasperated him to the point that he growled or snapped at her in order to say, “Back off!” Clearly, Rugby would have viewed this attitude and reaction as an infraction of the rules that he had put in place, regarding “his” Katie. Sweet, gentle Danny Boy didn’t fathom what he had done wrong or why Rugby went on attack mode.

So back to the tale of that day, as I ran toward the location where my son directed me, I began to detect an odor in the air. I had never experienced that smell before. It was strong and pungent but I forgot the sense of smell when my sense of sight caught Danny on the ground, in shock. He was shaking and I could see the bite wounds on his neck. His mouth was lathered and I immediately called my vet and friend. It was close to closing time and I just said, “There’s been a dog fight. Please wait for me to get there.” I wrapped Danny in a towel and flew to the vet’s office. When I got there, they were waiting. The vet’s mouth dropped open. He couldn’t believe that the gravely injured dog was one of my Scotties and not the Corgi. You see, the canines on a Scottie are HUGE and it is unlikely that a Corgi could or would win in a dog fight with a Scottie. Like the old saying goes, “It’s not the size of the dog in the fight. It’s the size of the fight in the dog!”

There is a happy ending to this saga. “Danny Boy AKA Dan My Man” is just fine. Rugby Jones is in a wheelchair but that’s another story. Miss Katie is still maddening but as precious as Rugby always believed and now, there is another Jack Russell on the scene. The morals of the story are, never say, “never” and how many dogs are too many?

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Malpractice! 96 year old man gets a vasectomy!

13 August, 2008 @ 7:37 pm
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“Malpractice!” They screamed, when they learned that a 96 year old man was advised by his doctor to have prostate surgery and then unbeknownst to the patient, the doctor also performed a vasectomy on him. So what would you do if you were the daughter who found out afterward? In addition, what would you do when your father died as a result of the surgery, less than a year later?

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Young Jessie Hall teaches yet…the lesson!

13 August, 2008 @ 6:47 pm
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How can any of us feel sorry for ourselves or our circumstances when we see the picture of Jessie Hall and learn her story? For such a young child to experience what she has and flourish, must serve as example to all. To have had half of her brain removed and then not only survive but smile, return to normal and thrive, must give all of us courage to deal with our own difficulties and obstacles. This child’s story illustrates the power of perseverance, love and prayer. There was never a “poor me” attitude but an “I will be just fine” approach to what life dealt her. God bless her and all who love her, support her, learn from her and pray for her.

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Yin and Yang or Lin not Yang?

12 August, 2008 @ 12:59 pm
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I find the substitution of a more “flawless” child for the authentic and magnificent voice of Yang Peiyi is deplorable! Are people today so depraved that they require seeing perfection when they are already listening to perfection as a talented and very special child pours her heart and soul into song? I think not! Seeing little Yang Peiyi’s picture, I find her adorable and quite frankly, I think she could have moved her audiences even more than Lin Miaoke was able to do. I don’t fault this child. She is beautiful and innocent but what message has been given to these two girls as well as children all over the world? I don’t fault the children. I fault the people responsible for the choice. My heart breaks for little Yang who, according to Chinese news reports said that she didn’t regret the decision, saying she was satisfied to have had her voice featured in the opening ceremony. What else could she say? I pray this child isn’t scarred from the actions of Chen Qigang! I can deal with the fake footprints, although that doesn’t sit well with me either. Most of us have been taught that falsifying and offering anything as true when it is not, is dishonorable. The same holds true here!

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Dara Torres is a true winner!

10 August, 2008 @ 10:03 am
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If Dara Torres can win a silver medal at age 41 after having had a baby, we can do anything that we set our sights on. She describes herself as, the “old lady” on the US Olympic team. She proudly told the media that”…There are a lot of middle aged men and women who I know tell me that I’m an inspiration to them and they’re now doing things that they didn’t think they could do…I’m hoping that my age paves the way for other athletes who maybe think they’re too old to do something.” YOU GO GIRL!

I don’t think that she is just an example for athletes but all women!

As we get older, we need to keep thinking younger thoughts. Remember when as little kids, someone asked, “What are you going to be when you grow up?” The answers might range from, “I want to be a mother,” to “I want to be an astronaut” or even to “I want to be the president!” In my case, I wanted to be a cowboy and an artist and a writer and a mom. The key is once again, a belief that you can do anything if you work hard enough! I met a man who has been blind since birth. He is a very successful and impressive figure skater. Think about that spin and picture doing it with no sight! We are only as strong as we want to be! The sky is the limit. Whether we are in our 20’s or 80’s, there is some new life experience waiting for us to accomplish.

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IS DIVORCE DUE TO DISILLUSION OR EVOLUTION?

9 August, 2008 @ 4:38 pm
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Try this on for size! I read an article in the Otago Daily Times, that was written by Tracy Barnet. She quotes the evolutionary anthropologist Helen Fisher, who is an authority on the subject. The jest of the piece was that…”We see marriage and children as a species necessity but with all due respect to a good half dozen religions that preach otherwise, why doesn’t divorce get any biological respect…Research shows that all societies find a way to dissolve mating partners…Divorce has been on the up and up for generations…the more children that a couple had, the less likely that they would divorce…”

So the theory is that, as night follows day, so does divorce happen in order to protect the human species. For me, the words hit home because I work with so many women who are in the throws of divorce. Her studying divorce minus emotion equates to a lifting of the “weary veil of tears” and allows evolution, something, anything, to eliminate the blame game. She made in my opinion, a novel comment. “…the less economically dependent couples are on each other, the more likely they are to seek new partners. Divorce is as much of a part of evolution as bearing children.” So I guess my question to you is, how many children do you have and do you think you will beat the odds or throw the dice for divorce?

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WOULD YOU BUY A WEDDING GOWN FROM AN EX-BRIDE WHO IS NOW AN EX-WIFE?

3 August, 2008 @ 2:30 pm
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Sorry, I have been away from the computer for so long.  So many people to meet and things to do! (LOL) I have a question for you. If you have an extra second, would you email me at Claudia@divorceforstayathomemoms.com and tell me your opinion on whether or not you would consider wearing the wedding dress of someone whose marriage ended in divorce? I just read something about a man who was trying to sell his wife’s wedding gown to Pay the divorce bills and it triggered my thoughts as far as, who might want to buy it!

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